National Urban League and President Obama

President Obama stated, "even though we are taking these actions, they are not enough." He is right and he has set it clear on the table as to how out of control gun violence is. The majority of gun owners need to do everything possible to help protect our nation. President Obama also stated, "We should have no greater mission than to keep our youth safe." It is important that violence decline in America and it is steady on the rise affecting many families physically as well as mentally. Will it ever end? No, but it most definitely can and need to be controlled. I believe that communities have had a hard time banning together. There needs to be a way to reach out to those who do not have the time to help enforce this decrease in violence. I believe it began in the homes. It also began with trust.

Parents need to be more aware of what is going on in their childrens lives. To learn what is going on means to talk to your children and not yell at them. Provide them your experience growing up and what you learned while growing. Help them to understand that it is okay rather than they will be punished or grounded. It is important to focus on learning their thoughts rather than trying to control them. Learning their thoughts will help you to understand why. Understanding why, will help you to know what need to be fixed internally. Most people who commit crimes using guns are trying to be heard or seen to make a statement. They are trying to be noticed. Why? Because they have gotten tired of being looked at as invisible. They have a need to be known, but does it in the wrong way.

One thing that do trouble me however, is how can we fight against gun violence in our backyard, but approve to go to other countries and fight in their backyards? It seems our society needs to practice what we preach as well. It all began in our own homes. How do you plan to raise your children, how have you raised your children, or how have you been raising your children? How much of your past will you hide from them or have you hidden from them? How will you discipline them or how have you disciplined them? Every action you take invents a consequence, so use your actions wisely.

NAACP and Mitt Romney

So, Mitt Romney talks at the NAACP convention and as he is talking, I realized something; he never really talked about what he was going to do. He spoke, but said nothing. How do a man like that expect to get in office? He has to be more direct and simple with his words or people will continue to see a man who is blowing a bunch of hot air and I am quite sure many would not mind popping the balloon that air enters. America does not need gibberish floating around. It is time to give Mitt some heat and began asking him to lay out his policies and visions as well as stop calling them his policies and visions.

 Just to speak directly to Mitt: What are your policies? Name them and explain them. What are your visions? Name them and explain them.

If someone asked me what Mitt Romney plan to do when he gets in the White House, all I can say is, I don't know, but he did say he is running for president because HE know HIS policies. If someone asks me what vision does Mitt Romney have for America, all I can say is, I don't know, but he did say his campaign was about helping others who need help, but he did say he wants to get rid of "Obamacare."

Just to speak directly to Mitt: Do you get my point? Explain what you mean by helping people who need help? And what exactly are you going to do to help people who need help?

What is Your Safety Net?

So, I am reading all these articles about safety nets; from medicaid, medicare, spouses, jobs, and children. I was thinking...society uses many different things as safety nets and we sometimes get so caught up in our safety nets that we forget that it does not always have to be a safe haven for us. So, what the hell am I talking about? Well, I believe that we put too much pressure on ourselves at times when it comes to stepping out of the box. That is a fear for many and it is something I myself have struggled with a point of time in my life. It was a way of protecting myself and I am quite sure many of you use it as a protection as well. It can be a scary situation to make choices that your surrounding environment don't normally make and it causes conflicting behavior. That behavior can suppress the next person if they let it; by them not wanting to try a leap of faith.

Learning what your safety net is can help you to go out on the limb and beat it. You beat it by rising above it and focusing on something of the opposite that can help infuse something in you that will make you more outgoing and inspired. I mean, if we stay consumed to only what we know, than how can we expand our horizons? I believe risks are the key. Ask yourselves, how many times have you truly challenged yourselves? How many times have you stepped outside of your box that you live in? How many times have you really tried? Or how many times have you decided not to make a business decision and another business takes the risk and succeeds? It is time to ask yourselves: What is my safety net and what can I do to break out of it? Learn what it is and overcome it. I did.

Unconditional Love

I never thought I would get it until I learned it and understood what it really meant. I learned it without adding anyone's thoughts but my own. I found that in situations, we believe and are told that we have made a mistake because of the decisions that we made, but that is so untrue in more than a million ways. Our decisions are our gateway to us and our decisions determine our pathway. It is important to know that when we make those decisions we are choosing them because of our inner thoughts. And why is it that we are told our inner thoughts are not right sometimes? Well it is because there are so many other decisions available but we forget one thing...our own decisions that we know we want to make. And we are all guilty of making a decision based on what someone else believe we should do. And why do we do that? Because we believe their decision is the best. And in many situations it is. But when it comes to love, I have found that making your own decisions is and will only be the best. Taking tips on love is common, but the final decisions we make is average. Why is that? Because we don't always take our own advice. And in many cases we should not especially if there is someone who have not learned what love really is and find themselves in a problem where they need to ball up their fist and free themselves of such pain. But even in those cases we must find ourselves and realize that we can actually make all of these decisions ourselves. And it takes learning to unconditionally love ourselves and knowing what we want and need in life first. Knowing yourself is key. Understanding yourself is important because it creates the decisions we make. And those decisions define us. How do you want to be personally defined?