I never thought I would get it until I learned it and understood what it really meant. I learned it without adding anyone's thoughts but my own. I found that in situations, we believe and are told that we have made a mistake because of the decisions that we made, but that is so untrue in more than a million ways. Our decisions are our gateway to us and our decisions determine our pathway. It is important to know that when we make those decisions we are choosing them because of our inner thoughts. And why is it that we are told our inner thoughts are not right sometimes? Well it is because there are so many other decisions available but we forget one thing...our own decisions that we know we want to make. And we are all guilty of making a decision based on what someone else believe we should do. And why do we do that? Because we believe their decision is the best. And in many situations it is. But when it comes to love, I have found that making your own decisions is and will only be the best. Taking tips on love is common, but the final decisions we make is average. Why is that? Because we don't always take our own advice. And in many cases we should not especially if there is someone who have not learned what love really is and find themselves in a problem where they need to ball up their fist and free themselves of such pain. But even in those cases we must find ourselves and realize that we can actually make all of these decisions ourselves. And it takes learning to unconditionally love ourselves and knowing what we want and need in life first. Knowing yourself is key. Understanding yourself is important because it creates the decisions we make. And those decisions define us. How do you want to be personally defined?
