Unconditional Love

I never thought I would get it until I learned it and understood what it really meant. I learned it without adding anyone's thoughts but my own. I found that in situations, we believe and are told that we have made a mistake because of the decisions that we made, but that is so untrue in more than a million ways. Our decisions are our gateway to us and our decisions determine our pathway. It is important to know that when we make those decisions we are choosing them because of our inner thoughts. And why is it that we are told our inner thoughts are not right sometimes? Well it is because there are so many other decisions available but we forget one thing...our own decisions that we know we want to make. And we are all guilty of making a decision based on what someone else believe we should do. And why do we do that? Because we believe their decision is the best. And in many situations it is. But when it comes to love, I have found that making your own decisions is and will only be the best. Taking tips on love is common, but the final decisions we make is average. Why is that? Because we don't always take our own advice. And in many cases we should not especially if there is someone who have not learned what love really is and find themselves in a problem where they need to ball up their fist and free themselves of such pain. But even in those cases we must find ourselves and realize that we can actually make all of these decisions ourselves. And it takes learning to unconditionally love ourselves and knowing what we want and need in life first. Knowing yourself is key. Understanding yourself is important because it creates the decisions we make. And those decisions define us. How do you want to be personally defined?

Same Sex Marriage

It has never been a fear of mine to discuss same sex marriage. In America, same sex marriage is frowned upon. There are currently six states that actually allow same sex marriage and conservative America have fought against same sex marriage for quite some time. It seems to me the fight is not over same sex marriage. The fight seems to be more about femininity vs. masculinity. When these two definitons are looked at, there is no set notion that the person has to be male or female. It is based on the behavior of the human being. And why should anyone worry about someone else behavior, role, or attribute, if it is not their own? I will tell you why.

 People believe that the reflection of another person's actions represents them. I know you are probably saying: What! But listen, how many times have you experienced someone telling you about someone else or telling you about yourself in regards to how to act or what not to do or what should be done. All the damn time. It is common communication that happens everyday and there is always someone making an opinion about the right and wrongs of how to be in society. It has escalated into a problem and the main question is not how to fix it because it will never be fixed. The main question is how do we learn to control it. By that, I mean controlling ourselves. There is so much pressure put upon each of us and I believe that we forget how much hurt is behind that pressure when the spotlight is not on you.

All of us have had an embarrassing moment in life that hurt. I am not talking about getting angry one day and happy the next. I am talking about that moment, whether you were a child or an adult, where you believed in something and someone made you feel like that belief was irrational. No one wants to feel that pain. So, why do it to others? Why not let others make their own choices and face their own consequences in life.

If a preacher or priest decides to marry a same sex couple, than let it be their choice. If you do not approve, than let that be your choice, but lets stop putting ourselves in the middle of situations that does not pertain to us. You do not have to go home with that person nor do you have to experience their lifestyle. You may see it, but that is it. You have eyelids; close them. You also have eyeballs and they are made to move, so look the other way.

Oh and by the way, don't be suprised if you are talking to your friend, cousin, uncle, nephew, niece, brother, sister, mother, or daddy who is in love with another of the same sex and wants to mary them, but you just do not know or have not taken the time to know. It happens everyday. Does the words "down low" ring any bells?

Contraception

Children are a blessing that we must not forget about. Children are the future. What keeps the world going? The reproduction of children. It creates more generations that continue to come up with new inventions and ideas. Every year someone creates a new idea and that idea fights to be appreciated by others. We accept and disregard what we want and do not want, however, we also stand proud with what we know we believe in.

We have all been in love and wanted to produce a new part of ourselves. Yet, we have the moments that we can't forget and they tend to frighthen us. When we think about those negative moments they frighten us. Truth is meant to be told and my truth is I was once afraid.

Giving up does not make me stronger, it adds weakness. Believing in what you want to believe in creates a choice and that choice is something I will live with forever. So no matter what choice you make society will have to live with it. Choosing to keep a child that was made not by love have consequences. We may carry burdens or we may accept the truth. Knowledge is very much power and having power produces strength. Strength creates phenomenism in hopes it becomes real. And why not? Because contraception creates controversy. Before we had the ability to prevent pregnancy, what did we use? What did we have?

In any event that a child is produced in any other way but through love, let's began to use our brains and allow ourselves to make our own choices. No one should judge a person unless they are able to understand their decision and why? Because we should not judge what the next person chooses to do. We should judge ourselves and only oursleves, that way we have each created our own identity and we have each established truth. Truth can hurt and it can also make you feel great. My truth is not yours. My truth is pain and happiness, however, I am not afraid to make my own decision or be judged by anyone else in a negative way for their own reasons. Are you? Paint your own picture.

Student Loans

What would you do if you woke up tomorrow and breaking news is everywhere discussing that student loans have been forgiven and everyone who has outstanding loans will no longer have to pay them back? How would the rest of your day go?

It is funny that this is only a dream for many and tomorrow when you wake up, many of you will still be wondering how the hell you are going to pay that student loan bill due next month and the months after that. Was college really worth all the money it cost you? Do you really believe you were completely fulfilled and have the dream job you always wanted? Some of you are smiling because you have that and the others of you are leaning back in your chairs probably saying: If I knew this was gonna be like this I would have never went to college. Than there is the other known people who are smiling, not because they are not in debt, but are, and feel that at least they did get through college. They have hope that one day, that dream job will come and finally it will be their turn.

Well folks, you all have that one thing in common that you never realized.

Scenario: Someone knocks on your door early in the morning with a briefcase and some papers to sign that states on them that if you sign these papers you will be debt free of any debt you owe. I bet you think it is a joke, however, the man or woman giggle and say, "I am serious." You stop, lean your head back and say, "Are you serious?" and they hand you the pen as well as copies of the agreement proposed for signing. What would you do?

I do not care who you are, if you have any chance to not pay for something, you will definitely embrace that moment.

Student loan bailout may not be or may be good for this economy, but how will it affect future students? Will they be excited to go to college knowing that if there is a struggle in the end someone will be there to wipe their stress away? How many more students will enroll into college? Have you counted those numbers? Or better yet, let's think like the opposer: Why even waste time on a bailout that is never going to happen? Isn't this the dumbest thing you ever heard?

Being Myself

Growing up I have always been asked to make sure I show people who I am and be proud of who I am at all times. It did not matter where I went or whom I was with at the time, I made sure I presented no other person but me. If someone found me to be not of their interest, it did not bother me because I knew what one person does not like, another one will. In my eyes, you win some and you lose some.

Well, I am reading my articles this morning and I stumble across one that talks about being yourself in the workplace. It claims that being yourself can harm you from being promoted. Now, excuse if I am wrong, but if you don't be who you truly are than are you not lying? Is that not a sign of someone who is untrustworthy?

Never, wear a mask just to get ahead in life because one day you will be sitting in that office looking around that room all by yourself, just wondering, what the hell you have been doing. You won't be happy. Well, you will smile for those who are around you, making them think you are happy, but it is the alone time that is the most important. If you are alone and not happy with who you have become, something is wrong. Portraying who you really are not, just to succeed or overcome something in life will only leave burdens that will carry around with you for the rest of your life and there is no sense to carry bags we do not need. Right?

It is more honorable to refuse to hide who you are. Uniqueness is everything. Let it shine!

The Importance of Focusing on the Brain



The only weight that need to be measured is the size of a your brain. If you do not use it all than you should be entitled to be fired or not get a job. Intelligence is the key to staying on the job. Being knowledgeable is important in order to move up in a job. Having open communication whenever needed is proof that you are capable of being informative and how you translate the message is key to how you lead. If all these things fall in at least a 80% grading scale for you, than you deserve the job. If you are slacking and just trying to get through the day, you need to be fired. But what happens to those who do have a brain and don't get to use it because they are turned down or fired due to their weight?

What is overweight? Who created it? If it is not created by nature, it is just another opinion floating around wishing millions would believe (And they have!). Sizes and shapes are only important if there is is a REAL health risk. Many people who are larger do not have health risks. The biggest health risk for people who are not skinny is the stress put on them for not being allowed to be themselves in society. That alone can kill a person.

Scenario: The fear of walking in a room and everyone staring can create a health risk especially if it creates paranoia which increases stress; now you never want to walk in a room anymore which increases blood pressure when you are in public because you are around many people which put you at a high risk for a stroke as well as your immune system is now weakened, which means  the stress can cause fatty tissues to grow around your abdomen and other subjective diseases can fight for survival in your body....Whoooo!

Do you get my point? Or did it just fly over you head? Catch this...

Now you are at the doctor being diagnosed with something...Hmmmm? If only someone would look at the brain. But wait... Is it too late to end first impression being everything with weight being one of the most important even though it is not mentioned?

Devaluation of Currency

During the nineteenth century inflation dealt with the devaluation of currency. Everytime there is an issue with the dollar bill, the taxpayers have suffered. Increase in cost of goods and services. The closing doors of companies whom are afraid of keeping the hired because of the fear of losing everything they have even though they alreasdy have enough to feed more than four generations of their own. And where has this gotten those who are at the other end of the sword?

They reach further down in their pockets and give more of what they do not have in hopes that one day they will be the ones holding the sword. At the necks of the innocent there is none whom is willing to say, "We must not take any more." However, there are those who play Peter Pan and Robin Hood fighting to the death. But they can't continue to do it alone. The majority is the power and the strongest, so don't let those who flash their gold and silver before you intimidate you. Money is not power; it is mere munipulation and once understood will not prevail any further than it is allowed.

If the entire world decided to sleep tomorrow trillions of dollars would be lost, but the need to spend that one dollar iches in the pockets of many. Ask yourselves why? I look in the mirror and ask myself every day. Why? And today on Easter Sunday I finally answered back, "I do not know." Forgiveness is unlimited.

Many of you are wondering what is being said here right now. Take it as you please. I know I do.